A: Thank you for your question Rita. In order for a relationship to last, there has to be loyalty. In order for your partner to feel a sense of loyalty, there has to be a level of exclusivity. No man of substance wants to be with a woman that every man wants. A man of substance wants to be with a woman that every man respects. Feeling good about yourself or feeling sexy has less to do with the clothes you put on than it does the person you are within. If you know in your heart that you’re sexy, everything you do will show it. You won’t have to reveal any skin, or wear clothes that show off every curve and crevice of your body, or do anything out of the ordinary to stand out. The moment you feel you need to do something to feel sexy, that lets your man know that you don’t feel secure about yourself, and even worse, you make him feel as though there is something he’s not doing to make you feel sexy. This also reveals to him that you need confirmation from other men in order for you to feel desired, attractive, or valued. If he’s already got you and knows what you’re working with, there’s no need for him to see you in sexy, provocative or revealing attire. This action is a desperate attempt to attract attention from other men that will in no way add value to the relationship with the man you already have. It will do the opposite in fact. It will attract men who value you based on what they see and not based on who you are. When a man commits to a woman, he wants to be able to take pride in her, and there’s no pride in walking hand in hand with a woman who is dressed like a “lady of the evening” (i.e. A prostitute). The most important thing in your relationship is “Peace Of Mind”. If you want to keep the peace in your relationship, keep things exclusive in your relationship and keep outsiders wishing and wondering they had access to what you have. The way you dressed when you were available and way you dress when you are off the market should be evident in the way you present yourself. There are no days off from being a lady, and being a lady is what will keep your gentleman by your side.
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