1) He’s Rarely Going To Clean Up After Himself.
Right before you came over to his house for the first time, he changed his sheets for the first time in weeks, maybe months, his sink was filled with dirty dishes, his microwave and stove top was filthy, his refrigerator was empty, his dirty laundry was all over the place and his apartment smelled like a foot. Deep down, he needs someone who can help him in the areas he is flawed, but on the surface he will show you someone confident, competent and proud. After getting to know him over time, you will discover that he needs all the help he can get, and that’s where you come in.
2) He Doesn’t Pay Attention to Detail.
When he leaves the toilet seat up, doesn’t replace the toilet paper after he’s used the last of it, leaves spaghetti splatter all over the microwave, doesn’t push the toothpaste to the top of the tube, leaves the bed unmade, doesn’t notice a change in your hair or your weight, don’t get offended… Men often don’t pay close attention to these kinds of details. Our thoughts are pre-occupied with more pressing matters such as how we’re going to keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, and build our legacy.
3) He Loves For YOU To Cook.
Sure he can prepare a meal on his own, order out or hire a chef, but he enjoys watching “you” prepare and serve a meal. Food is the way to a man’s heart, so when you feed a man, it gives off the impression that you are interested in capturing his heart. If you can’t cook, won’t cook or aren’t willing to learn, you will find a hard time holding onto a man.
4) He Doesn’t Want To Talk About Every Emotion You Go Through.
Men are simple, we talk when necessary and are mute when necessary. We aren’t used to openly talking about our feelings, and find it uncomfortable and quite annoying to have to listen to each and every one of yours. Granted, while being in a relationship does require communication and compromise, there’s a time and a place for everything. As an alternative to overwhelming your significant other with emotionally charged endless conversations, it’s always good to have girlfriends that you can talk on the phone or go out with so that you can express your innermost thoughts and feelings.
5) He Will Want To Have Sex Whenever It Comes To Mind.
The world is a cold, hard and lonely place (for a man), which is why men will do just about anything to get close to a woman. The one thing a man can’t get without you is (heterosexual) sex! Anytime the two of you are in close proximity, he will want the option of getting close to you physically so BE READY!!!! Prepare yourself emotionally by being open to this type of spontaneity, don’t be afraid to make a mess of things around the house, and if possible be showered up and ready for it to go down!
6) He Will Never Approve Of Your Male Friends.
“Friendship” is more than likely the exact approach your significant other took to get you in bed, so it’s clear that it works. You may view a male friend as a play brother, platonic friend, or just a cool guy, but he views you as someone he would like to eventually sleep with. No matter how good of a friend or how valuable of a resource he may be, your man looks to replace any and all male friends indefinitely.
7) He Is Not Impressed By Your Degree(s).
Getting an education and gaining new knowledge is unarguably the greatest asset one can have. It will open up doors to building relationships, securing jobs and furthering your career, however a man is more concerned with the specific value that you plan on adding to his life (i.e. Cooking, cleaning, sex and raising a family). As the protector and provider, what a man looks for in a wife is someone who can love and nurture his relationships, his investments and do all she can to make them grow. In return, he will bring everything back into the home and share it with her.
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