Being in a relationship is easy; it’s making it last that becomes the real challenge. Food can be used as an aphrodisiac, and can heighten the sexual experience, which ultimately leaves both parties happy, healthy, and satisfied. Food is the way to a man’s heart, and an open heart is the way to a woman’s body! With both parties having an understanding of what motivates the other to be intimate, they create a sense of peace of mind in the bedroom, the kitchen, and everywhere in between.
Food is the way to a man’s heart. Once you’ve accessed a man’s heart, he’ll do anything for you. #WinWin. On average, there are at least 3 opportunities to use food to connect with your partner: Breakfast, Lunch, And Dinner. Don’t miss this opportunity to connect, because once this need is fulfilled, that’s one less area your partner will look to depend on you. A relationship is about interdependence, so never let your usefulness expire.
-Breakfast: The first meal of the day is the most important meal of the day. In fact, it sets the tone for the rest of the day. Prepare a meal before your partner wakes up and you’ll be the first thing on their mind. A well-balanced meal not only nourishes the body, but also the mind. What better way to start the day than with a healthy meal prepared by the one you love? Make yourself indispensable by being a source of love, inspiration, and motivation that your significant other can depend on.
-Lunch: Pack a home cooked meal in Tupperware and send your significant other off to work. It’s a great way to save money, remind your special someone where home is, and curb their appetite. Thanks to your efforts, in the middle of the day when they’re ready to eat, you will still be with them in spirit. If possible, surprise your partner at work with lunch. Since they’re working, they probably won’t be able to truly show their gratitude, but will look forward to extending a special thank you later on in the evening! 😉
-Dinner: Give your partner something to look forward to. It’s been a long, hard day and it’s time to see some happy faces for a change. Set a dinner time and don’t be late. Your partner will be more likely to come home with a great attitude and on time if there’s food waiting.
Sex is the reward that’s exclusively exchanged between two people who have proven their love through their time, energy and devotion to one another. You’re depending on each other for sexual fulfillment, so make sure that these needs don’t ignored, overlooked, or pushed to the side. Make time to enjoy one another not only in the spiritual and emotional sense, but also in the physical.
-Be safe: Know your status. Go with your partner to get tested, use condoms.
-Be loyal: Respect yourself, respect your partner, and be monogamous.
-Have fun: Don’t be afraid to shake things up in the romance department. Bring food to the bedroom, bring sex to the kitchen, smile about it everywhere!
Peace Of Mind is the sense of security you get from the relationship you signed up to be a part of. Knowing that you can count on one another for spiritual, emotional, physical, and financial support is priceless. Get to know yourself, get to know your partner, continue to be of help to them based on their needs, and be able to identify when you’re not needed (i.e. Leave your partner alone).
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